Category Archives: Empowerment

STUCK IN A RUT AND NEED A MOTIVATIONAL KICK IN THE BUTT?

I can’t believe it’s mid-June already. Nearly half way through 2017.

The new year seems a long distant memory huh?

I’m not sure where you’re at with your goals, but what I do know is we’ve all started things, and then fallen off the wagon right? And that’s ok. We’re human.

But there is no better time than NOW to begin, re-boot and follow through with CONSISTENT ACTION.

Trust me, your future self will thank you.

So if you’re looking to get re-focused and knock those goals out of the park, but don’t know where to start you’re in the right place.

The following 4 tips will get you raring to go:

DISCOVER YOUR WHY

Out of all the things I’m sharing this is the most important.

Your why is what will drive your success. To find your why, dig deep and identify what drives/excites you to achieve your goals.

A well-developed why will clearly and powerfully help you break through unexpected obstacles and guide you as you prioritise your time, and focus.

To help you discover your why, answer the following questions …

Why do you want to live a healthier lifestyle? e.g. would you like to have more energy and lose a few pounds so you can be more active with your kids? Have you had a health scare and the time is now to really get it together for you and your family? Or maybe you want to look/feel fabulous to get back on the dating scene?

If your why is strong enough. Compelling. Authentic. From your heart. You will be motivated to start and keep moving forwards towards your goals. As human beings, our neurology is wired to move away from pain and towards pleasure.

FIND YOUR TRIBE

This may seem bias but I genuinely mean this – myself and all the women who attend my SMALL GROUP PT classes are shamazing. We’re a group of beautiful souls who are all loving, non-judgemental and super supportive. Why not come along and see for yourself? CLICK HERE for details.

HIRE A COACH

When I want to learn something new, achieve goals and be held accountable I hire a coach. There are certain jobs within my business I’ve needed help with so I got in the expertise I needed. Sometimes you just need help and there’s no shame in that. None of us can be great at everything.

Remember to take me up on my FREE B-FIT SESSION. You can dip your toe in with zero risks or obligations.

MUSIC CAN RAISE YOUR GAME

When you get to the gym or go for a run and realise you’ve forgotten your iPod, how do you feel? Lost? Me too.

For me, it’s an essential, and I don’t feel I can train properly without some kind of music. We’re all aware that music can help with motivation, but did you know there’s a lot of scientific evidence to back this up?!

Get your playlist to the ready and give it a go.

So what do you do to give yourself a motivational kick in the butt? Let me know, I’d love to hear your thoughts.

Lastly …

Do you have a friend who needs a little motivation? If you do, make sure you share this blog, it could really help them.

Remember this is all about becoming a new and better version of your already-amazing-self.

Routing for you 😊

Love Gaynor x

LOVE YOURSELF

If you didn’t already know it’s Valentines Day.

So it seemed very fitting that I touched on the subject of love but not in relation to loving another person instead loving the most important person of all …

YOU

As cliché, as it sounds the first place to look for love, is within.

It’s an inside job.

Let’s be honest, we’ve all fallen prey to looking for love and fulfilment outside of ourselves.

There’s all sorts of places people go to fill the void such as food, material stuff, work or some trophy man. The list goes on!

Here’s the thing …

Nothing sticks. It’s a temporary fix.

You always end up right back where you started from and it ends in …

  • Drama
  • Pain
  • Identity crisis
  • Lost dreams
  • Bad break ups
  • Tears

And so on …

What I’ve found is you need to step back from everyone and everything.

Instead, look inside. Re-evaluate. Work on your self-awareness and recognise you were looking in all the wrong places in your quest for happiness and love.

The answer never lies in some arm candy trophy man, worldly materialism, or any other bells and whistles that life dazzles us with.

No matter how wonderful and enviable your life is on the outside if you don’t love and feel great about who you are at your core it’s meaningless.

So I’ve 2 very important words for you.

LOVE YOURSELF

Reinforce your self-worth. Take back your power.

Figure out you. What you want. What makes you happy and do it.

Learn to be independent, authentic and honour your truth.

Don’t create unhealthy attachments. Learn the art of letting go.

NEVER EVER RELY ON ANYONE OR ANYTHING TO COMPLETE YOU

So what practical steps can you take right now to show yourself self-love?

What makes you feel good, nurtures and re-charges you?

It could be some meditation, going for a facial, eating healthy food, or getting outdoors for a brisk walk.

Make a list and get to it!

Remember you’ve got me here too for support. Feel free to get in touch on 07748298728 for a chat. I’m all ears. It costs zilch, and there’s no strings attached.

One more thing …

Do I get all this self-love, self-help stuff right all the time?

Absolutely not!

I’m a beautiful work in progress. Some days I do great, and others days I stumble. That’s real.

Now I’d love to hear from you.

What’s the biggest incite you’ve taken away from today’s post? Any aha’s you’d like to share? And what will you do differently going forwards?

Can’t wait to hear from you.

Love Gaynor x

P.S. Take a look at these wonderful weight loss success stories HERE. These women showed themselves self-love and care about their health and wellbeing. You could be next!

B-FIT CHANGED MY LIFE

For Rachel life before B-Fit was very different …

She was in a lot of pain after an accident that left her with a degenerative disc in her lower back. The daily norm was being on high doses of a cocktail of meds such as morphine and with this came many nasty side effects.

Rachel had walked with a crutch for 4 years, felt groggy and in a haze most of the time. If this wasn’t enough she also felt unfit and was fed up not being able to exercise and live life fully.

Then Rachel took the bull by the horns and joined B-Fit about 12 months ago and this is what happened …

  • She ditched her crutch and walking stick
  • She came off all her medication
  • She exercises pain-free e.g. regularly swimming 40 lengths, cycling and walking several miles most days
  • She power walked the 5 km Santa Dash faster than a lot of people running it
  • She improved her diet and now eats really healthily, without faddy diets or calorie counting
  • She has increased her energy, vitality, improved her general health and is much more confidant
  • She no longer feels like she is existing in a haze
  • She looks amazing and is glowing and …
  • She feels like herself again and is living life to the full.

As Rachel said “It’s changed my life”

Want to watch Rachel’s video testimonial? CLICK HERE or press play below !

Rachel still has a little way to go to reach her final goal but so far she’s thrashed many of her goals already.

I’m one very proud coach, I could cry!

If you relate to any of Rachel’s story and need help lift up that phone and call/text me on 07748298728 for a FREE confidential, no obligation chat. You’ll also get a FREE B-FIT SESSION.

I’m at the ready and can’t wait to help you too.

As always, thank you for the privilege of your time. Let’s make this year our best yet!

Love Gaynor x

P.S. If anyone you know is committed to turning around their health this year, or simply wants to optimise their energy and mental focus, please forward this blog. This could massively change their life like it did for Rachel.

3 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF BEFORE 2017

The end of 2016 is just around the corner and what a year it has been!

If you’re like me you’ll probably be reflecting and mulling over how 2016 was for you. You’ve likely had some awesome moments, but also some trials and tribulations.

Reviewing your year doesn’t have to be overwhelming. There’s much wisdom and incite to be gained from it ‘if’ you know how.

These 3 questions by Marie Forleo (I follow her, she’s amazing. Be sure to Google her) do exactly that in a simple, powerful and quick way. You’ll look at what you achieved, what you learned, and what icky rubbish you need to let go of!

Promise me you’ll take at least 10 mins out to answer these questions before making any life changing resolutions? They’ll set you on the right path girl and clear the decks for a fresh sparkly new start in 2017. 

Now go grab your journal and pen and let’s get started …

Question 1 – What Did I Do, Create, Or Experience This Year That I’m Really Proud Of?

Slow down, smell the roses and really pay homage to all your achievements and accomplishments.  

The big things. The little things and every teeny-weeny thing in between.

Write that stuff down ok?!

The reason this Q is so important is because we often beat ourselves up for not being good enough, not achieving enough, not being quick enough …

Yadda yadda yadda 

What ends up happening is we start the new year feeling ‘meh’ instead of positive and full of gratitude.

Question 2 – What Mistakes Did I Make That Taught Me Something? What Lessons Did I Learn That I Can Leverage?

Look back over your year. What didn’t go well? What lessons did you learn? How can you grow from these? Use this as a positive force to propel you forwards. 

But remember …

Find the lesson without beating yourself up. It’s vital to recognise one’s own mistakes, and let go of what no longer serves us. A tough lesson, but nonetheless a very necessary one.

With enthusiasm, commitment, humble recognition and by putting in the hustle – positive changes can happen!

Believe me, armed with this information you’ll launch into 2016 like a true warrior and feel really empowered.

Question 3 – What Am I Willing To Let Go Of?

My oh my, this is a huge one.

I’m a massive advocate of detoxing all areas of my life whether it’s mental, emotional, spiritual or physical.

My attitude is if something doesn’t serve you or raise you up – get rid. For example …

What projects are you dragging around that need ditched?

What goals do you need to let go of?

What toxic people do you need to say goodbye to?

What guilts, resentments, hurts, and shames are you holding on to?

What icky stuff has been hang’in around for years that no longer serves you?

And …

Who might you be if you completely let go of these dis-empowering thoughts? Powerful Q huh?

For me, if it ain’t aligned with who you are now and where you want to go say adios. 

As Marie so funnily says this question is like having a massive colonic! LOL 

Let’s wrap today’s theme up with a great quote by Rumi …

“Be Like A Tree & Let The Dead Leaves Drop”

Have fun with this exercise, and let me know your answers. I promise this will really set you up for a powerful start to 2017.

Love Gaynor x

LADIES TIME TO START DROPPING HINTS

With Christmas, ONLY 11 days away it’s time to start dropping subtle hints about what we’d like Santa to bring us.

Afterall, you’ve been a good girl !

Jokes aside, you’re probably running around like a nutter, from pillar to post. Concerned about everyone else’s needs but your own. You’re doing everything from shopping to food prep, to taxi services for the kids and everything in between.

Then the partying starts with all the usual late nights, food and drinks and by the end of it all your pooped.

Sound familiar?

Well …

Let’s get YOU back on the top of YOUR “to do” list, and back in the driving seat of your life.

It’s time to invest in you. You’re important. There’s also a solid case to make that you can’t help, serve and fully show up for others if you’re not healthy and happy yourself.

So let’s take the bull by the horns and change this. Are you in?

Don’t wait until the New Year and then go on some low calorie faddy controlled diet. Speaking of which make sure you check out last week’s blog on this very topic HERE.

How about hinting for a B-Fit Christmas voucher? Simply give your loved ones my name, telephone number and leave the rest to me. I’ve got you covered, and it’s such an easy gift for them to buy.

Start 2017 feeling fabulous, eating nutritious foods without calorie counting, and doing a bit of the right exercise without spending hours bored in the gym.

Also, CLICK HERE to take a look at some of B-Fit’s success stories.

This could be YOU.

In the meantime, before you ask your loved ones to call me …

Why don’t you book in for a FREE consultation with me? I’m giving away 3 places before Christmas. CLICK HERE to find out what happens in a FREE B-Fit consultation.

I’m really looking forward to hearing from you and working with you in 2017.

Love Gaynor x

BBC 100 WOMEN 2016 + 8 WAYS TO EMPOWER WOMEN

A bit of a different subject this week prompted by the BBC 100 Women 2016.

These women come from all sorts of backgrounds, industries, and cultures. Everything from activists, researchers, campaigners to entrepreneurs. Whatever their story all these women are inspirational and influential. All have astonishing stories to tell.

It’s a fascinating line up which you can read about here.

I’m a great believer in women’s empowerment and I truly believe when women authentically support one another from the heart it’s powerful and unshakable. We can move mountains. Accomplish great things. Reach our highest potential, and go further faster.

So I wanted to share with you 8 ways I believe we can all empower one another with …

  1. Compliment & Encourage

Take the time to compliment your girlfriends. Celebrate their accomplishments. Women feel more empowered when they’re more confident right?! Take for example all the wonderful B-Fit success stories here. Haven’t these ladies done amazing?!

  1. Speak Up & Stand Up

If you see a woman being mistreated, say something. Don’t ignore it. Every time a woman is belittled, it impacts each and every one of us and sends out the wrong message.

  1. Start Early

Got a daughter? Niece or granddaughter? Think about instilling a sense of empowerment in them at a young age. They need to know early on that they can do anything they set their minds to. Instilling these qualities will help create a new army of women who will stop at nothing to achieve their dreams!!!

  1. Mentor & Collaborate

If an opportunity arises to team up and collaborate on projects go for it. We can compliment each other’s skills, support and help each other.

  1. Be A Role Model

One of the easiest ways to empower women is to be a positive role model. Be confident and show them what’s possible if they put their mind to it.

  1. Watch Your Lingo

When you name call another woman, it’s not only horrible but your giving out a message that it’s ok to do this. It’s not. As Gandhi said “Let’s ‘be’ the change we want to see in the world”

  1. Accept All Women

Regardless of skin colour, religion, body size and shape, or sexual orientation we’re all kindred spirits and need to empower each other. Ditch the judgement. Choose acceptance.

  1. Be Kind

I get that not all of us are on a mission to empower women, but we all should be kind. Being kind to our fellow sisters shows the world that we respect all women.

Are you onboard? I hope so.

Let’s do this.

Now I’d love to hear from you. Who are the amazing women who support you? And who do you support? How’s it impacted your life?

Ping me back an email to gaynor@b-fit.uk.com

I can’t wait to hear your story.

Gaynor x